Space is Good

September 29, 2008 | Filed Under Simplify, Church, Family 

Maybe I’m just getting older. Or maybe it’s the fact that my family is everything to me. It could be that the state of the world is in shambles, and when I’m walking in an open field or swimming in the ocean, life feels more whole, untouched, and genuine. Whatever it is, I think there’s something to this “open space” thing. Be it land or water. I really like the room, you know? And all those “rural people,” are starting to look a lot wiser than I used to give them credit for, when growing up in Missouri. (I still don’t like the music too much, but there are exceptions. Less twang, less steel guitar…but I digress…)

I’m very comfortable in an urban environment. I crave it sometimes. And when that happens, it’s a good time to go to Taipei or Tokyo or some dense, fluid, concrete-and-glass jungle. That is awesome. And makes for great inspiration as a designer, musician, etc. Some of the best creative juices flow when I’m listening to electronica and hitting the streets in some downtown megapolis. I used to think that’s where I wanted to live, to really live. When I was a teenager and before I was married mind you. Funny how perspectives can be altered huh? I love cities. Gritty, pulsing, strange cities. A good place to visit. But to live? Have a family? When it comes time to think about elementary schools and your kids’ quality of life? I’m leaning more to small and cozy with a lot of space. But I’m a very modern person…so this is something I am going to have to work with. I’m liking the space. And eventually we will get some land of our own.

We had a good experience the other day. One cool thing about living in the midwest is that there are members in the Church that have land with gardens, etc. Well, one Sister M. was generously allowing others in the ward to come and get a couple bushels of apples from her orchard. So after classes and dinner, we jumped into the car and went on over. Sister M. also provided us with a couple wagons, while we were there, so we could pull Keane and the box of apples. Brighton got to touch some very large and colorful goldfish too. And Kuei saw a patch of soybean plants for the first time. Then we all took a stroll about their property while the sun was setting. It was very peaceful, and a great way to end the day. A little walk among the grasslands. (The sky is bigger out here, by the way). It was a good FHE, check it out.

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